While Your Single

While you are single, God will help you untie those deep and strong soul ties, they can take a long period of time to heal and undo. The thing is your soul is still attached to theirs, it all depends on how strong and deep the connection was between yourself and the other person. I prayed a prayer way back in 2010 but it is only now that God is beginning to deal with this soul tie that I had with a male friend back in college. We were only friends but our minds connected on an unusual level and I believe we were in love with eachother, we were never intimate. Shephanie Herzog talks about this in her book she calls it counterfeit bonding, it is although very hard to identify what it actually is, emotional, physical or spiritual. I do know we have bonded and crossed the line and too this day he is still in my heart.

I recently just at the end of last year 2010 untied a soul tie to another male who I was very close to, well i have waved bye to him and closed the door, but to be going through this again is an emotional strain, in many ways I feel as though I'm lossing so much. But it has to be done.

How un-doing a soul tie accurs first the old emotions/ attachments resurface, then you think maybe he is the one, then usually the way in which the thoughts of this person directs you should determine if they are or not. For example if the thoughts of this person leads you to sin and destruction drop it and run to God, if the thoughts of this person leads you closer to God, to being a better person, involving yourself then He possibily is the One, that God is directing you too. That is how I have determined the One I have weighed all these other males against this One male and I always come back to Him.

Then in Your Heart it is truly your desire to follow God's Plan for your life you say to Him "God, it is my desire to do your will and if X is not the One you have chosen for me then I give Him up please help me to let go of Him once and for all!" and He will Help You, remember He looks at the Heart and as Long as your desire is to serve Him, He will help you.