I'm Telling.

I am even more now convinced that the One that God has chosen for me is the One, it has taken alot of convincing. Recently I heard something within me saying "tell him", I replied "No" the voice went away and has not returned! I seeked prayer at church, then I spoke to my Pastor who told me to ask God instruct me on what the next step should be. Aim to seek and gain as much knowledge as possible from the Spirit and also from your bible! I went back to Stephanie Herzog book retaught myself on God's way of approaching God's chosen one.

Note to self: If you are not ready for Marriage or even a committed friendship then you shouldn't give the him the inpression that you are. Be ready in every sense of the word, be an all round whole person, filled with Gods Love and Passion. Get your guidance from the Holy Spirit.

1 God reveals the person to you, then confirms it in several legitimate ways (so for example I got a kettle from a family member which had his last name, which I saw as a confirmation from God. It is very light humoured but I believe God could be speaking through the kettle.)

2 Now out of Obedience to God you should approach Him and ask if He too has heard anything. Be incredibly sensitive for both Him and yourself. It is going to take alot of Knowledge, Discernment and Holy Ghost Power!!! If God has spoken to you as clear as day and you have your confirmations then be sure God has spoken to him too.

3 Make a committment to eachother of genuine friendship be friends. It isnt a dating situation no intimacy do not ruin the purity of the relationship, love one another enough to not destroy and ruin what God has spent all this time prefecting for you (please don't commit any sexual acts before the wedding night.) Keep God in the middle of your Friendship.

4 This is the time that you tell your parents or spiritual parents make sure they are spiritually mature and hear from God. Pray for Wisdom and Strength both of you. In this day and age older people think young people only get married because of attraction, sexually urgers, emotions, and lust. So truly bow your head and ask Him to let them see this marriage is from Him, ask for maturity and wisdom also pray that God would give your parents peace to know this is God. You are not seeking their approval so if they do not approve the relationship trust God to turn it all around, but the bottom line is you are doing Gods will and that is all that matters, if you have Gods Blessing its all good.

Matthew 19 vs 6- So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What God has joined together, let no man asunder or separate.

Pray at every step of the way, for the smallest things to the biggest! Depend on Him.